Participation of friends or family members

As you plan the funeral or memorial service, keep in mind the people you would like to participate in the service and what you would like their roles to be.

Common ways for people to participate include:

• Serving as a pallbearer
• Offering a eulogy, tribute, or other speech
• Reading a poem, prayer, or literary selection
• Singing a song or playing a piece of music
• Hosting a post-service reception

Special features of the service

Keep in mind if there are any special touches you’d like to bring to the funeral or memorial service, such as music, flowers, a photo slideshow, or a video tribute.

Religious considerations

If you will be following any religious or cultural traditions, many aspects of the funeral or memorial service may already be prescribed. Consult your local clergy or view our article Religious Funeral Traditions.